{"id":5632,"date":"2025-11-20T15:29:08","date_gmt":"2025-11-20T15:29:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/?p=5632"},"modified":"2025-11-20T17:00:26","modified_gmt":"2025-11-20T17:00:26","slug":"seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Seven phrases classy people use to assert boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1-self-assured-phrases-boundaries-1024x682-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5635\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1-self-assured-phrases-boundaries-1024x682-2.jpg 1024w, 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class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#Seven_phrases_classy_people_use_to_assert_boundaries_without_causing_any_offence\" >Seven phrases classy people use to assert boundaries without causing any offence.<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#1_%E2%80%9CThank_you_for_thinking_of_me_but_Im_going_to_pass_this_time%E2%80%9D\" >1. \u201cThank you for thinking of me, but I\u2019m going to pass this time.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#2_%E2%80%9CIm_not_available_for_that_but_I_appreciate_you_asking%E2%80%9D\" >2. \u201cI\u2019m not available for that, but I appreciate you asking.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#3_%E2%80%9CI_need_a_little_time_to_focus_on_some_personal_priorities_right_now%E2%80%9D\" >3. \u201cI need a little time to focus on some personal priorities right now.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#4_%E2%80%9CThat_doesnt_work_for_me_but_let_me_know_if_theres_another_way_I_can_help%E2%80%9D\" >4. \u201cThat doesn\u2019t work for me, but let me know if there\u2019s another way I can help.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#5_%E2%80%9CIm_going_to_step_away_from_this_conversation_now%E2%80%94take_care%E2%80%9D\" >5. \u201cI\u2019m going to step away from this conversation now\u2014take care.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#6_%E2%80%9CId_prefer_we_keep_this_topic_off_the_table_going_forward%E2%80%9D\" >6. \u201cI\u2019d prefer we keep this topic off the table going forward.\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#7_%E2%80%9CI_have_a_policy_of_not_lending_money_not_discussing_work_after_7_pm_not_mixing_business_and_friendship%E2%80%9D\" >7. \u201cI have a policy of [not lending money \/ not discussing work after 7 p.m. \/ not mixing business and friendship.\u201d<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/20\/seven-phrases-classy-people-use-to-assert-boundaries\/#Final_note\" >Final note<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Seven_phrases_classy_people_use_to_assert_boundaries_without_causing_any_offence\"><\/span>Seven phrases classy people use to assert boundaries without causing any offence.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are seven classy phrases that polished, self-respecting individuals use. They are used to assert boundaries with grace, firmness, and zero unnecessary offence. Each phrase is presented in point form, followed by a detailed explanation exploring why it works, when to use it, how tone and body language enhance it, common situations, and variations for different contexts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_%E2%80%9CThank_you_for_thinking_of_me_but_Im_going_to_pass_this_time%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>1. \u201cThank you for thinking of me, but I\u2019m going to pass this time.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5639\" style=\"width:710px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-4-1-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the gold-standard decline. It begins with genuine gratitude, which softens the refusal and shows you value the relationship. The phrase \u201cthinking of me\u201d acknowledges the asker\u2019s intention without endorsing the request itself. Ending with \u201cthis time\u201d leaves the door slightly ajar for future possibilities, preventing the other person from feeling permanently rejected. Use it for social invitations, favours, or networking requests you simply don\u2019t want. Deliver it with a warm smile and steady eye contact; the sincerity in your voice does 80 % of the work. Variations: \u201cI\u2019m flattered you asked, but I\u2019ll have to sit this one out.\u201d Or for repeat askers: \u201cYou know I adore you, but I\u2019m going to pass again this round.\u201d It\u2019s versatile because it requires zero justification yet feels complete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_%E2%80%9CIm_not_available_for_that_but_I_appreciate_you_asking%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>2. \u201cI\u2019m not available for that, but I appreciate you asking.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"404\" height=\"720\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1743257880144.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5641\" style=\"width:548px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1743257880144.jpeg 404w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1743257880144-168x300.jpeg 168w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 404px) 100vw, 404px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNot available\u201d is beautifully unambiguous yet impersonal\u2014it\u2019s about your capacity, not their worth. Pairing it with appreciation flips the focus from rejection to gratitude, lowering defensiveness. This phrase shines in professional settings: declining extra projects, after-hours calls, or last-minute meetings. It also works when someone wants your time you\u2019ve already allocated elsewhere (family, rest, hobbies). Say it calmly, without over-explaining; lengthy excuses invite negotiation. If pressed, repeat gently: \u201cI truly can\u2019t, but thank you for understanding.\u201d Variations for friends: \u201cMy plate\u2019s full right now, but I\u2019m touched you thought of me.\u201d For colleagues: \u201cI\u2019m at capacity this sprint\u2014let\u2019s revisit next quarter?\u201d The beauty is its finality; people rarely push after hearing \u201cI appreciate you asking,\u201d because it signals respect both ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_%E2%80%9CI_need_a_little_time_to_focus_on_some_personal_priorities_right_now%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>3. \u201cI need a little time to focus on some personal priorities right now.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5643\" style=\"width:680px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-768x1151.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-1025x1536.jpg 1025w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920-600x899.jpg 600w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/adult-1850268_1920.jpg 1281w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This phrase frames boundaries as self-care rather than rejection. \u201cPersonal priorities\u201d is broad enough to remain private yet specific enough to sound legitimate\u2014no one can argue you shouldn\u2019t prioritize yourself. It\u2019s ideal when stepping back from group chats, volunteering overload, or emotionally heavy friendships. The words \u201ca little time\u201d and \u201cright now\u201d imply temporality, preserving harmony. Use a soft, steady tone; rushing it undermines the message. Pair with a gentle nod to reinforce calm confidence. Variations: \u201cI\u2019m in a season of pouring into family\/me\/time alone\u2014hope you understand.\u201d Or professionally: \u201cI\u2019m protecting some bandwidth for strategic goals this month.\u201d People respect those who respect their own limits; this phrase teaches others to do the same. Bonus: it models healthy behavior, often inspiring reciprocation when they later need space themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_%E2%80%9CThat_doesnt_work_for_me_but_let_me_know_if_theres_another_way_I_can_help%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>4. \u201cThat doesn\u2019t work for me, but let me know if there\u2019s another way I can help.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5645\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/unnamed-5-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Direct yet collaborative. \u201cThat doesn\u2019t work for me\u201d is assertive without blame; it states a fact about your comfort zone. Immediately offering an alternative channels the conversation toward solutions, preventing awkward silence or guilt trips. Perfect for mismatched schedules, unwanted plans, or requests that cross personal lines (e.g., \u201cCan you watch my kids every Friday?\u201d). Say it with upbeat energy\u2014ending on a helpful note keeps the mood light. Variations: \u201cFriday nights are sacred family time, but I\u2019m free Saturday mornings\u2014does that help?\u201d Or \u201cI don\u2019t lend money to friends, but happy to brainstorm budgeting ideas.\u201d It transforms a \u201cno\u201d into a relationship-strengthening moment because you\u2019re still showing care. People remember the offer to help more than the initial refusal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_%E2%80%9CIm_going_to_step_away_from_this_conversation_now%E2%80%94take_care%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>5. \u201cI\u2019m going to step away from this conversation now\u2014take care.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5648\" style=\"width:620px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The elegant exit clause. It announces your departure without accusing anyone of wrongdoing, preserving dignity on both sides. Use when discussions turn toxic, gossipy, overly political, or simply draining. The dash before \u201ctake care\u201d acts as a verbal hug, softening the exit. Deliver with a small smile and relaxed shoulders; tension in your body undermines the classiness. If online, add an emoji (\ud83d\ude4f or \ud83d\ude0a) for warmth. Variations: \u201cI\u2019m going to bow out here\u2014wishing you a lovely evening.\u201d Or in heated moments: \u201cLet\u2019s park this for now; I value you too much to argue.\u201d It prevents escalation while protecting your peace. Crucially, it trains others that you won\u2019t be drawn into drama, and over time they self-censor around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_%E2%80%9CId_prefer_we_keep_this_topic_off_the_table_going_forward%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>6. \u201cI\u2019d prefer we keep this topic off the table going forward.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5650\" style=\"width:710px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-2048x1152.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/img_3866903835-600x337.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is boundary-setting royalty. \u201cI\u2019d prefer\u201d sounds refined, not bossy. \u201cOff the table\u201d is a sophisticated idiom implying finality without harshness. \u201cGoing forward\u201d sets a clear future expectation. Use for recurring invasive questions (salary, relationship status, fertility plans) or divisive topics (politics, religion). Say it once, calmly, then change the subject; repetition weakens impact. Pair with a pleasant tone and forward-leaning posture to show engagement elsewhere. Variations: \u201cLet\u2019s agree politics stays out of our catch-ups\u2014I enjoy your company too much.\u201d Or gently to family: \u201cI\u2019d rather not discuss my dating life; let\u2019s talk about your new hobby instead.\u201d People comply because the phrasing feels like a mutual agreement rather than a unilateral demand. It also signals high self-respect, which commands admiration more than resentment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_%E2%80%9CI_have_a_policy_of_not_lending_money_not_discussing_work_after_7_pm_not_mixing_business_and_friendship%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>7. \u201cI have a policy of [not lending money \/ not discussing work after 7 p.m. \/ not mixing business and friendship.\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5653\" style=\"width:707px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-600x600.webp 600w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png-100x100.webp 100w, https:\/\/pradipmotivation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/friend-1.png.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Framing boundaries as pre-existing policies removes personal rejection entirely\u2014the rule isn\u2019t about them, it\u2019s about your consistent standards. Policies feel non-negotiable yet fair, like company guidelines. Use for money requests, weekend work emails, or friends pitching MLMs. State it matter-of-factly, almost cheerfully, as if it\u2019s obvious. Variations: \u201cI never lend to friends\u2014it\u2019s saved many relationships!\u201d Or \u201cMy after-6 p.m. rule keeps me sane; let\u2019s tackle this tomorrow.\u201d Add light humour when appropriate; it diffuses tension. People rarely challenge a \u201cpolicy\u201d because it implies universality, not targeted dislike. Over time, your policies become part of your personal brand\u2014respected, predictable, and classy. Others start announcing their own policies in your presence, creating a culture of mutual respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_note\"><\/span>Final note<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mastering these phrases isn\u2019t about memorising scripts; it\u2019s about internalising the mindset: your time, energy, and comfort are non-negotiable treasures. Speak from that quiet confidence, and even a firm \u201cno\u201d will sound like the most courteous thing in the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Seven phrases classy people use to assert boundaries without causing any offence. 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